These factors help to reduce stress, enhance wellbeing, and support parent-child relationships which are foundational for healthy development in children. This month, our focus is on Nurturing and Attachment which is another way to say, “love and respect.” There are several ways in which parents can nurture their children and build strong, healthy relationships with them.

• Provide for physical needs – Besides providing safe shelter, food, & clothing, tend to your child’s routine health needs such as well-child visits and dental care.

• Learn about child development – Children develop at their own pace but in a predictable sequence. The Parenting Communities Program can offer guidance of what to expect from your child at each stage.

• Listen – Take time to focus individual attention on your child. Pay close attention to body language and tone of voice. Reflect your child’s feelings using words that tell them that you understand.

• Encourage – Help your child discover the wonder of the world by providing opportunities to explore new things.

• Foster independence and self-worth – Provide challenges for your children that help them learn & grow. Remember: the drive toward independence can cause tension for children & caregivers alike – watching our children struggle as they master new skills can be a challenge for us, too!

• Discipline – Recognize that discipline is a method of teaching and guiding your child to make appropriate choices. Be consistent, constructive, and fair in your teaching.

• Take care of yourself – It is important for caregivers to take care of their own needs so they will have the energy and enthusiasm they need to care for the children in their lives. This is hard work and you deserve good care as well. Whether you give yourself the care you need or you ask for help from others, take good care.